Blaming others for things you did is never a good idea. It will seriously come back to bite you in the butt. It really depends on how your personality is though. Many things can happen when The most obvious one is that an innocent person may be punished. That is not a good thing. No one likes to be punished, but it is especially bad when the punishment is undeserved. In the end, they paid the price for whatever YOU did, and that is unfair to them. They did not deserve the punishment that you should have received. Besides that, a perfectly happy person that gets blamed for something they did not do will get bitter. Even if the whatever you blamed them for does not end in punishment, the innocent person would feel like they have been wrongly persecuted, and that is enough to ruin anyone's cheerful attitude. Not to mention that wrongly blaming someone can ruin a friendship. If my best friend blamed something bad on me, it is likely that I would be pretty upset at her until she apologized or until I got bored of all the hate in the atmosphere. If she thought I was responsible for some bad happening, it is also quite possible that he would be upset with me, and over something I had not even done. This has not happened yet, I believe, but I am sure it would be a bad experience.
A big repercussion of wrongly blaming someone is that the person who was blamed may carry a bit of a grudge. They are obviously not going to be happy that you wrongly blamed them. That grudge can cause friendships or other relationships to fall apart. That is never good...
As you can see, blaming people for the things you do can really come back to bite you in the butt. Especially when you only blame one person, because that is just not fair. Instead, you should blame EVERYONE equally for everything bad that happens. I"m kidding. That would be bad too. You should refrain from blaming people until you are absolutely sure they have done what ever it is that is in question.
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